Since this is a 101 thread, I'd like to offer a meditation that's very beginner friendly, fun, and has results that are very
self evident if you stick with it. I'm lifting it and paraphrasing it from "Path notes of an American Ninja by Glenn Morris" which despite the goofy title, is a fantastic read I highly recommend if you're interested in seeing how deep down the rabbit hole this esoteric game goes.
The technique is called "The Secret Smile." Here are the steps;
Take the meditation posture you prefer best. The most important point to remember here is to keep your spine straight as possible though I'd also recommend a posture where your legs are comfortable and you can easily feel your feet. Keep your tongue pressed up to the roof of your mouth (This is important. It might seem trivial but don't skip that one.) Close your eyes and slow your breathing down. Put a smile on your face (Lift your cheeks so the corners of your mouth turn upwards if you're a salt mine like me who's forgotten what a smile is)
Clench your toes as tightly as possible until they really hurt and then release them, Do this three times. Once the pain has stopped focus in on the feeling of relaxation in them and move it up your legs. Pull it up your ankles, up along your calves, feel it rise up over your knees, thighs, and across your hips. Feel the muscles relaxing along the way as you do this. Pull it up along the length of your spine, up over your head and down to the point where your tongue is touching the roof of your mouth. Swirl the feeling of relaxation in your mouth and mix it with your saliva. Swallow it down and let the relaxation circulate through your body as it goes.
Next, Think of a time you did something really well and were proud of yourself. Not only this, but other people were also proud of you and recognized what you'd achieved. Let the events fade away and hold onto just the feeling. Move the feeling down to your feet, and then feel it rise up your legs in the same way as the first step (You don't need to clench your toes anymore.) Let it rise up your spine, over your head, into your mouth. Mix it with your saliva and swallow it down. Mix it with the first feeling. Repeat this step twice more for a total of three cycles, or more if you're enjoying yourself.
Think of a time you laughed your ass off. A real deep, great laugh that you couldn't control or stop, Let the events fade away and hold onto that feeling of uncontrollable wild laughter. Let it flow down to your feet. Move it through your legs, up your spine and over your head. Mix this sensation of joy with your saliva and swallow it down. Let it mix with the others. Repeat for three cycles.
Think about a time you were in love, Truly, Madly, Deeply Do. Head over heels, and were also loved in turn. Let the circumstances fade, Hold onto that feeling. Move it down to your feet (Noticing a pattern yet?) move it up through your legs, up through your spine and over your head. Mix it with your saliva and swallow this loving feeling down, charging your body with deep unconditional love. Let it mix with the other feelings in your body. Repeat for three cycles.
Now for the fun part! Think about the best orgasm you've ever had. Take out the person, people, or animal in question and hold onto just the feeling. (Assuming you're a man it might help to focus on the moment just before the orgasm. Creaming your trousers would be counterproductive at this point.) Move it down to your feet, Up through your legs and spine, then up to the top of your head. Mix it with your saliva and swallow it down. Mix it up with the others. Repeat for three cycles.
Try to feel the combination of these energies which by now should feel pretty great. Circulate it all over your body and play with it for as long as you like.
By doing this, you're making yourself cool, confident, happy and sexy. Pretty useful. The end goal here is to learn how to truly internalize these feelings. Make it a part of your practice until it is so easy that it's just background sensation or an easy warm up for any other exercises. It's a great starting point for anything you'll have to handle in your life. /fringe/ or otherwise.
Enjoy, and have fun!