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Self-Worth 01/20/18 (Sat) 21:27:32 No.114806

How do I acquire self-worth /fringe/?

I'm tired of people shitting on me and it's gotten so out of hand that I really need to just get away from everyone that knows me and start again and just make up a new story for my past or just never talk about it.

I don't want to be "that guy who comes from a broken family and is probably going to kill himself" or however people see me.

I need to acquire a sense of self-worth otherwise no woman will ever have anything to do with me and I'm going to be viewed in a bad way by everyone.

I don't even know what self-worth is btw because I've always ignored the topic since it has always seemed like "bullshit women babble about that means nothing". I need a definition or concept or self-worth, I don't understand it.

01/20/18 (Sat) 21:55:17 No.114808

Bumping because I need this too.

01/20/18 (Sat) 22:20:09 No.114810

>>114806

Try this

https://www.wikihow.com/Realize-Your-True-Potential

01/20/18 (Sat) 23:16:39 No.114812

>>114810

Judging by that title what you've linked me is entirely worthless. I don't need to realize my potential, I need to however stop hating myself, stop doubting myself, stop seeing myself as worthless, and get that "unwarranted sense of self-importance" that niggers and subhumans who never question themselves have so I can get women and respect.

01/21/18 (Sun) 00:14:40 No.114814

>>114812

Did you even skim through it?

How do you think you stop hating yourself lol? If you want to value yourself you need to accomplish something you see value in - and that falls under "realizing your potential." If you have no potential for feeling self worth you're fucked either way since that is who you are. Geez. I can see why you feel bad when you give up so fast you can't click a link. Even if that method isn't what you were looking for you can search for something more relevant on that site. I expected you to understand that much.

01/21/18 (Sun) 01:26:14 No.114820

Self-worth is not something society can give to you!

I've already explained this at length here:

>>114610

Utterly nobody is capable of giving self-worth to you except for you. You know how best to act, independent of other people's opinions of you. If there's something you're doing that you're not proud of or don't approve of, then it won't make you happy no matter what anyone else says. If their presence pains you, remove yourself from them as much as possible, you don't need that. Self-worth comes from behavior which is in line with the best that you know, rather than short-term incentives. Once you get yourself away from the incentives to get short-term rewards for long-term pain, then self-worth becomes automatic. Utterly nobody is capable of providing you with that but you.

PS it may do you some great good to actively avoid anyone's opinions but those of people you explicitly respect, at least for a time, and then branch out from there. Worked for me, might work for you. Just a thought.

01/21/18 (Sun) 08:43:15 No.114839

>>114812

Jesus Christ OP, you are a lost cause.

I'll tell you what you need: shut the fuck up and let other people "shit on you". Do what you are told unconditionally and don't talk back.

Do that for three months and watch your life take a 180. Just trust the process.

Or not. Don't bother replying, I'm not going to stick around to babysit you.

01/21/18 (Sun) 15:08:37 No.114842

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>>114806

The way i see it is you need to change your mindset and "cultivate self-worth"

>Mindset

Understand the Law of Cause & Effect. If your self-worth and self-image is dependant on external factors (how people see you, how they react to you) you are at the effect, and the cause is the environment, meaning that you are giving them power over you, power to make your self-worth go up & down whenever they please, giving you little control over it.

So, you need to control the cause, and thus control the effect.

The key to getting at the cause is not being dependant on other to "feel good", but generating your own positive emotions. This is done by knowing what you want out of life, what makes you happy, what are you willing to work towards, what are you willing to allow into your life (you should definitely study astrology to get down this part).

Become self-assertive. When you have a relatively clear picture of what you want to be and do, embody the values you want to live up to, don't allow any shit into your life that doesn't support you. Realise that you either assert your reality and your values or other people will assert theirs (One, No One and One Hundred Thousand by Luigi Pirandello is a great read to grasp this).

This video has some nice shit also: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdrsDFyYRws

>Cultivation

Here is an easy and practical way of "increasing" your self-worth:

1.Create a sigil for self-worth (if you're not exactly confident with making sigils the sun glyph will do just fine).

2.Draw the sigil (or glyph) on a piece of paper, preferably small but not miniature.

3.Stick the paper on a glass

4.Now, everytime you drink out of the glass, you need to imagine the energies of the sigil coming into the water, and with drinking the water they come into you.

If you need any more tips, you let me know.